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Hadith: Verily, women are the counterparts of men ....

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"Verily, women are the counterparts of men."   - Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) Source: Musnad Ahmad 25663  This is an amazing blessing from Allah, The Most High. The relationship between a man and a woman as husband and wife is one based upon so many facets.

Whoever among women dies while her husband is pleased with her, then she will enter Paradise...

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  “Whoever among women dies while her husband is pleased with her, then she will enter Paradise.” Source: Hadith: Sunan At-Tirmidhi 1078  A woman's submission to her husband's authority should be a part and parcel of her religious duties whose fulfillment will help her to get to Paradise. [Dr. Bilal Philips]  #Paradise #GoodWife #IslamicMarriage

The expulsion of women from their natural roles within the family is part of the symptoms of a declining culture ...

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The expulsion of women from their natural roles within the family is part of the symptoms of a declining culture.  [Dr. Bilal Philips] If a husband works outside the home to earn an income and his wife follows suit, then who raises their children up the right way with Islamic ethics? No one!  #RaisingChildren #HowtoRaiseKids #MuslimKids

A wife and a husband should be regarded as friends for the sake of Allah ....

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A wife and a husband should be regarded as friends for the sake of Allah. And that friendship is above material needs; each encouraging the other one to do good deeds, which are pleasing to Allah. [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]

Do not look for excuses in married life; strive and put your trust in Allah ....

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Aasiyah (RadiAllahu anha) was married to the worst of mankind, Firoun, yet she was one of the best of women. Strive and put your trust in Allah.  Being married to the worst of mankind did not stop Aasiyah being one of the best women. Do not look for excuses; strive and put your trust in Allah. [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]

Polygamy protects the interests of women and children in society

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“And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. That is more suitable that you may not incline [to injustice].” ( An-Nisa 4:3 ) Polygamy protects the interests of women and children in society. Dr. Bilal Philips]

One of the beautiful ways we worship Allah is through Marriage

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One of the beautiful ways we worship Allah is through Marriage. [Dr. Bilal Philips]  Marriage in an Islamic context may be considered a right of worship enabling men to effectively submit his will to the Creator. Consequently the last Prophet of Allaah was reported to have said, “When a servant of Allah marries, he is completing half of his religion or half of his religious obligations, and he must then fear Allah in order to complete the second half.” Dr Bilal #Marriage #HalfOurDeen

Increase your knowledge as a couple | the rights of husbands and wives in Islam

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An effective way for couples to increase their love for one another during Ramadan is to tune into Islamic lectures together about marriage in Islam, the rights of husbands and wives in Islam, and so forth. [Dr. Bilal Philips] Increase your knowledge as a couple! An effective way for couples to increase their love for one another during Ramadan is to tune into Islamic lectures together about marriage in Islam, the rights of husbands and wives in Islam, and so forth. Listening to Islamic lectures or reading Islamic material from books can be done together any time throughout the day, and is a great way to not only gain knowledge, but to also spend quality time together. #Ramadan #IOURamadan

The husband need not exercise his authority in a rough or arrogant way ...

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The husband need not exercise his authority in a rough or arrogant way which might encourage the wife to react by being intentionally disobedient. [ Dr. Bilal Philips] Are you playful with your spouse or neglectful? Is communication between you good or is something getting lost in translation? Marriage is hard work, but worth every effort! You’ve been blessed with a spouse. Take the responsibility seriously and be grateful to Allah.

A Muslimah's pride is not in taking the last name of her husband, But in Keeping her own!

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A Muslimah's pride is not in taking the last name of her husband, But in Keeping her own!   [ Dr. Bilal Philips ] RIGHTS OF WOMEN IS ISLAM – One of the ways that Islam has elevated the state of the woman is that she keeps her own name after marriage. Her name is her lineage, and her own. When she gets married she doesn't change that name since her name indicates her genealogy.

Hadith: The best dowry (mahr) is the easiest [to fulfill]

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"The best dowry (mahr) is the easiest [to fulfill].” - Prophet Muhammad , (ﷺ) (Hadith: IbnMaajah) As opposed to what happens in society today, where elaborate and expensive amounts of goods and currency are demanded, the dowry should be easily attainable and not cause couples to choose zinah instead due to difficulty or cause confusion by dismissing good men for marriage.  The Best in Islam by Dr. Bilal Philips #marriage #islam #IOU #Bilalphilips

Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty

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Marriage closes the door in the face of many acts of moral degeneracy and decadence, which are among the major causes for the destruction of societies. [Dr. Bilal Philips]  "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." (Bukhari) #Marriage #islam

One of the greatest blessings a Muslim can receive in this world is a righteous and pious spouse.

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"Righteous spouses assist one another in preserving their faith by offering help, support, and advice that enables them to obey Allah and abstain from sinning. Which is why the Prophet (pbuh) said that marriage is half of the religion." [Dr.Bilal Philips]

Both partners in marriage should treat one another in a kind fashion in order to maintain a harmonious atmosphere in the home

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Both partners in marriage should treat one another in a kind fashion in order to maintain a harmonious atmosphere in the home. - Dr. Bilal Philips  Are you playful with your spouse or neglectful? Is communication between you good or is something getting lost in translation? Marriage is hard work, but worth every effort! You’ve been blessed with a spouse. Take the responsibility seriously and be grateful to Allah.  #MaritalBliss #MuslimMarriage

Love is something that should enrich your values, not compromise them.

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If removing the Hijab is a condition for your marriage, avoid him. Love is something that should enrich your values, not compromise them.  [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]

A woman's primary responsibility in marriage is attendance to the needs of her husband.

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A woman's primary responsibility in marriage is attendance to the needs of her husband. It’s the duty of all wives to work hard to be pleasing to your husbands. Don’t be neglectful! Treat him well and he will reciprocate. [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]

The Best among women She who pleases her husband when he looks at her

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#Hadith : The Prophet was once asked, " Who is the best among women? ” He replied, " She who pleases her husband when he looks at her, obeys him when he bids her, and who does not oppose him regarding herself and her riches fearing his displeasure. " ( Report by Abu Hurayrah and collected by Nasai ) The rights that wives have over their husbands are many in Islam. But men also have rights over their wives that should be honored. For example, wives are encouraged to greet their husbands pleasantly when they come home, and take care of their appearances so that they remain appealing to them.  [Dr. Bilal Philips]

One of the beautiful ways we worship Allah is through marriage

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Love and mercy are important sentiments that brighten one's life and give him a feeling of reassurance, security, and happiness. One of Allah’s great favors is the love and mercy that He instills among the married couple.   [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]

Marriage has been ordained by Allah as the correct and legal way to produce children and replenish the earth.

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Marriage has been ordained by Allah as the correct and legal way to produce children and replenish the earth.  [Dr. Bilal Philips] It is only through marriage that a relationship can grow and prosper by the Will of Allah. #IslamicMarriage #MarriageInIslam

Polygyny is an ideal solution for women who want to get married and are accepted by a husband who recognizes the benefit of a good wife

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Polygyny was the practice of most of the Companions of the Prophet (peace be upon him) as well as Muslim scholars from the earliest time of Islam up to the present.   [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]  It’s an unfortunate reality that many good Muslim women are being rejected for marriage because they’re either divorced, have children or are too old to bear children. Polygyny is an ideal solution for women who want to get married and are accepted by a husband who recognizes the benefit of a good wife. #MuslimMarriage #Shadi #Polygamy

Build your marriage on your faith in Allah, insteed of your feelings ...

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Don't build your marriage on your feelings that constantly change. Build your marriage on your faith in Allah. [ Dr. Bilal Philips ]

Blessed marriage is both husband and wife should love Allah and his beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) more than they love each other

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Marriage IS NOT EASY, BUT with Allah's help, IT CAN BE THE BEST TIME EVER. May Allah bless all COUPLES AND THOSE WHO ARE SEEKING. Ameen.   [ Dr. Bilal Philips ] Do you want to know the shortcut to have a blessed marriage? Both husband and wife should love Allah and His Beloved Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) MORE THAN THEY LOVE EACH OTHER! #HalfOurDeen